Generally, in men, there are almost no problems with excitement, as for the purpose of obtaining orgasm while having sex. The situation is different in women: often, even after a prelude of the long-awaited sensation of "butterflies in the stomach" and do not come. And we want to adapt to the desires and the rhythm of his men! As a woman, to help you quickly excited, tells in detail of our journal.
Why a woman can not be aroused before sex?
To arrive to solve the problem, it is necessary to first clearly define what it consists of.
Tips to engage
Every woman possesses his own collection box of tricks, in fact, in one way or another, everyone had to think on the theme of excitement, of every there are some observations and conclusions. In the comments, you can share your opinions on this topic, after reading (useful, hopefully) recommendations.
The good attitude
Assuming that it is not a question about "first time", we can say that a certain sexual experience, you have, well, there is something essential and important for the "integration" of the butterflies in the belly, and this sweet waiting. It is your memory . It holds the key to rapid and effective management of the mood in the right direction. It's not just the sex.
You know, to give the trust, the person can recall and recreate the moment where he felt safe. In order to improve the mood, here and now, to read in the memory of a positive event.
Well, and cry for no reason, we just have to remember something bad. This string works here. By adding even a little bit of imagination, you already feel it is a pleasant feeling in the lower abdomen. Moreover, those who have a strong imagination, may be sufficient, and only the imagination.
The erotic film
And those that do not go well with the imagination, or as a stimulator, we propose you to try "delicious" film. If you are disgusted wrinkled beak, do not rush to close the page. In fact, it really works. Not quite understandable, why one feels the sexual arousal at the sight of erotic scenes, but it is as well.
Another issue that is acceptable, and even fun for him to watch - light, romantic, erotic or movies with the three letters of x-men. Treat yourself and your friends to a movie night, or, if the stiffness or prejudice, it is hindered, play alone. No one knows.
Hot water bath
He is of the opinion that using a hot bath, because it stimulates the circulation of blood. Use favorite oil, candles, perfumes and other "amenities" to your taste. With some having such an effect, we consider below.
Alcohol
This point a lot of attention paid to will not be. Most understand how it works. The main thing - do not overdo it.
The touch
You can try the more radical, if one only have an impact on the emotional system does not give results. Combine several of the above options with each other or with sweet and tender touching. Or coarse, if you wish. Select the hour. Examine your body, love yourself.
Aphrodisiacs for arousal of women
- The girl can not so excited, as this is not is preliminary. Or foreplay, the excitement is still not come.
- The first, by itself, it poses an option that something is not right with your partner: 1) He commits acts which, in the pleasant place, does not cause feelings or even opposite; and 2) He's not interested in you, as a man; and (3) May-be you "morally" away from him, some women just can't give the person confidence, that is not psychological proximity.
- Perhaps it is the fatigue. Yes-yes, normal, physical fatigue, fatigue. If after a busy day, you try to have sex and that something does not work, think about it: maybe the reason is simple, and in vain, you've spent the last hour looking for answers in the world wide web?
- The fatigue can be even, and the moral, which, in principle, also, is not fatal, but a bit more difficult.
- More seriously, when horny not prevent a certain disease or an illness, including the "female".
- Taking these medications may have an influence on the excitation process.
- May have problems of a sexual nature, such as frigidity, or post-traumatic stress disorder for the period of psychological trauma. However, they are resolved are not in line, with the help of doctors and specialists.
- Among persons change in mood can call any small thing he has in mind that something in your environment bother you, do not give to relax. Think of this as.
- The stiffness of embarrassment. May be the result of a relationship to sexuality as something bad or a complex about his appearance.
- Essential oils of geranium, ylang-ylang, bergamot, saffron, sandalwood.
- Strawberries, raspberries, avocados.
- Dark chocolate.
- In the olive oil.
- Almonds.
- Garlic (yes, really).
- The ginger.
- The fruits of the sea.
- Quail eggs.
- The greens, the asparagus, the marine cabbage, artichokes.
- Spices - black pepper, basil, anise, cardamom, cinnamon et al
As a wanted woman folk remedies?
List of aphrodisiacs in the list above, you will no problem to compile complete "aphrodisiac" in the menu. You can stir and leave to infuse all sorts of teas and drinks.
In addition, we propose to make a point to the infusion of rhodiola rosea (golden root, ginseng) . In folk medicine, the use for over two thousand years for the treatment of various diseases, and the use of a few tablespoons of tincture of an hour before close will improve the excitability and the degree of pleasure which results from it.
As a wanted woman the most quickly?
As we have seen in the receptions of the self-excitation, the secret is in the memory, the imagination, the regular repetition. In fact, do not cease exercising itself, you will be excited when it is needed (and can be, when it should not).
Read a novel interesting with beautiful sheets, scenes, watch a film on your taste.
Think about the sex, the dream. Imagine you are the caller, you have a certain desire of the man. Do not hesitate and take beyond propriety. Do something that is really, what would not dare in their ordinary life.
Banal: buy beautiful and lingerie. The one that you want.
To do this, it is important to love their body. Admire her reflection in the mirror in this finery, stand in an attractive pose, the smile. Consider your dignity, of your sexuality. You are beautiful, isn't it?
Even in the ordinary days, to be sexy. Not surprising that you got this beautiful kit? Not to forget how to sex under the clothes.
With the word "toy" what do you have associations? If anything indecent, it must be done. When the question is really how aroused more quickly, this option is good, at least, of three parts:
- This "toy" of the provision of the service, when the favorite is not with you.
- Will help to relax and learn more about your body.
- As a bonus, can become the climax of love games.
So, about the excitement. By selecting a compact version of the huge variety, try to take her away. Accidentally stumbled on this intimate of the attribute in the purse, except, perhaps, the embarrassment, it is normal and the desire that you feel, remembering my recent spice of leisure.
How exciting: a step-by-step for women
- Put yourself in order to feel self-confidence to 100%.
- Choose clothing and lingerie that emphasizes your sexuality.
- Make sure that you do was not distracted in the environment.
- To light a candle, if you wish, use the aromatic to adjust the way you want it.
- Turn on some good music or a movie.
- Take advantage of an individual or a company partner.
Practical advice to the wife: how to excite himself
The most important thing, it is:
- Reject everything that binds you - whose opinions, stereotypes, decently-is indecent.
- Love her body is so to really enjoy looking in the mirror.
- And when you have mastered in paragraph 2, take a look at you once again. Slide it gently on your face, lips, neck. As it has the most attractive young the more daring of your imagination? Models, and required the opinion is no more. That you have more in your nature?
- Follow all that you have managed to pull of this article. Listen to your desires and the desires of his body. On this time, get rid of the modesty.
What if the woman is not excited?
The answer is obvious - try something else.
- Add more foreplay or, on the contrary, to remove.
- Try to talk about sex, talk differently: ambiguous allusions-oriented sales conversations.
- Try not to talk simply, and learn of her half, she wants that as it may be uncomfortable. Are both are honest.
- Pass each other, not yet realised, of imagination, and there a. The courage and run the report.
- Organize role-playing games. Try, can help you. Take on the role of famous characters, or beat that you want from the situation.
- Change the location, in fact, all bored. And if "action" occurs always on a timeline, in one place, and God forbid yet at the same time, where there...
- Many of the ambivalence towards sex shops. It is clear - for the countries of the post-soviet space it is too tight, even after such a time.
However, in large stores, whether online or in your city, among a wide range of products, that is not to the taste of each pair: clothing, accessories, toys, games for the preludes and sex , not everything is listed. All that remains is to choose from.